Manifest an Intimate Loving Relationship
The Essential Secrets to Manifesting an
Empowering, Spiritual and Sexually Alive Relationship with your
First of all, I'd like to say that
the reason I feel that I have any sort of authority to
write an article how to create a successful
intimate loving relationship is that
I've had over 30+ years of hard core practice. With 27
intimate relationships and 2 healthy divorces behind me, I've
developed the ability to create a deeply loving intimate relationships.
I've learned something spiritually essential with each
partner I've had along the way, and see each relationship as
a successful encounter.
The intimate relationships of my life have
touched me on the deepest spiritual levels.
I've learned how to be
authentic, speak from the heart, and communicate my
truth from a place of love in the face of
fear. I've learned the power of keeping my heart open no matter what happens,
the magic of tantric intimacy,
and how to bring a woman into a cosmic orgasm. I've
discovered that these 3 explorations are society's main missing
ingredients needed for successful long term relationships.
If every human being on Earth was practicing these, we would
all be supporting each other to reach our highest spiritual
potential, and deepest fulfillment in this lifetime.
If there was one golden key to manifesting a long term
intimate loving relationship it would be the ability to have
heart and mind at all times. This means dropping all
attachment to ego. In order to achieve this
great feat, you'll need to reach a very
high vibration of energy and consciousness. Which is
why I've created online
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has helped tens of thousands of people from 60+
countries around the world how to achieve this highest state
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if you've been struggling for
years trying to
create an intimate loving relationship that fits your
sensitive soul, now is the perfect the time
to experiment with a new angle and more enlightened approach.
There are no coincidences in this intelligent Universe, and
you didn't come across this article by chance. Consider this
article as an
Enlightened Message from your Soul to
start inventing, investing in, and manifesting a new love
life that meets your emotional, sensual
and sexual needs. Are you ready for this?
if I told you that you have this awesome amazing spiritual
power inside you that will instantly dissolve away every
challenge you're having in your love life. Would
you be willing to invest some time and energy in removing
the egoic mask to awaken
this divine sleeping power inside you?
If you're interested I'd like you to start with taking a
deep breath of air and relaxing your body as much as you
imagine what it's like to already have that perfect
intimate loving relationship with your partner right now. Feel this is
the truth in this very moment. Yes! You are going to have the deepest,
most profound love affair with your partner tonight! Are you
does this feel? How are you feeling and thinking differently
about your partner? What actually changed in you? Once you awaken
manifesting powers, you will see how easy it is to pull
any desire or dream you have into your living breathing
The Great Secrets to Shifting from Ego into a Soul Based Relationship
The first basic step on this sacred journey is learning how to
shift out of relating to your partner from a place of ego to
the space of spirit. Ego always feels a lack in life, so its
constantly thinking about what's in it for me. Soul based
interactions come from feeling of infinite abundance, and so
one naturally responds with some variation of how can I best
be of service. The heart tightens and protects when we're
relating from ego, and is opening and expanding when coming
from Spirit or Soul.
In each moment, we have the opportunity to meet our mate
from the demanding impatient ego's agenda, or our timeless
eternal Spirit. The power to make this shift starts with our
imagination. We can alter how we are viewing a challenging
situation with our partner by shifting the dimension where
we are coming from. We can perceive this lifetime on Earth
as one huge cosmic classroom, and creating a successful intimate
loving relationship is getting our masters degree and
How To Know You're Coming From Ego
that incomplete part inside who is constantly lacking love.
In the spiritual context, its the "I" thought (or who you
refer to as "me") who believes it is separate from the God
Source. It's not the pure awareness that is conscious
of the "me", yet the vast collection of beliefs, thoughts
and rules all around the limiting idea of "me".
Often people get caught in a co-dependant
type of relationship,
where it can be confusing to know if we are coming from ego.
If you are have been in a long term relationship, please
8 Sacred Signals to see whether you're coming
from your ego or your soul. If you identify with any
one of them, you can know at least that specific part of you
is still stuck living in an ego based relationship.
we are coming from our ego we are not coming from love. We
are coming from lack, limitation, worry, impatience, fear,
control, powerlessness and a feeling of separation. All
arguments, fights, and power struggle dynamics in
relationship stem from an ego based paradigm. We see life as
a survival school from womb to the grave, where striving for
more money is what millions are fighting for everyday. And
why are we here on Earth? What is our real soul's purpose?
Are we here just to get all of our ego's needs met and then
The level of
consciousness we are coming from always mirrors the
level of relationship we are manifesting. If we ourselves
are living our lives from ego, our partner must also live from ego in
order to continue being in the same relationship with us. Once we
learn how to transcend our ego and come from our spiritual
nature, our partner must also drop their ego in order to
remain in relationship with us.
fear that many couples have in their relationship is that
they will spiritually outgrow their partner if they
work on themselves, and this will ultimately end the
relationship. Real spiritual growth is never what kills a
relationship, but rather the lack of it which makes people
move on. What makes everyone evolve is real love. This is the most powerful force in the
Universe and it's highly contagious.
we are truly rooted and touching our spiritual core 24-7
there is only love radiating in the field of energy all
around us. We are like a radiate Sun that everyone feels
good being around. This love is very real, extremely
powerful and will energetically penetrate into the core
heart of whomever is in our presence.
our partner spends time with us, their mind and heart are
forced to relax and open. It becomes very obvious how wrong
it feels for them to live from ego. All the reasons they had
to be angry, mistrusting, in lack and fear simply melt away.
The block of ice they were hiding behind is melted by the
blazing warm light of the Sun. They realize how joyful,
blissful and amazing life feels again, and know its from
being with you. Your presence is the guiding light, helping
them understand how to live a spiritual life in trust, love
and joy again.
The Sneaky Signs that We Have a Spiritualized Ego
journey to spiritual awakening in our partnership can be a tricky
at times. It can elude us to the point where we don't how to discern who we
truly are and what our spiritual path
is. We can get lost in some intellectual search for
spirituality, thinking we are God, and that who we are is
the only source of love in the Universe.
spiritual ego is easily formed for anyone who has had a
glimpse of self realization,
and then is needing to integrate the ego and its limiting
world. One can become isolated on the tip of ones spiritual
quest, thinking they have arrived at knowing all there is to
know in the Universe. The momentary joy of finding one big
spiritual truth morphs into one grand illusion that eternal
happiness is here to stay.
spiritual ego trip works like a sedative for feeling the raw
too real human pain that has been ignored inside. The
spiritual ego mask is put on, and others are wooed by the
sparkle and fancy regurgitated wisdom that it provides. When
the spiritual ego rears its head in a partnership, it
becomes the most dangerous of all facets of ego.
our partner is having an emotional meltdown, Instead of
opening up the spiritually warm heart whilst moving
energetically closer with compassion to melt the egoic ice,
the spiritualized ego pulls back to protect itself instead.
It behaves just the same as all forms of ego, and tends to
remain emotionally distant from any form of pain our partner
may be having.
spiritual ego may seem like its on top of the world, yet in
truth it is deeply afraid our partner has the power to hurt
and destroy us, and it does. The spiritual ego mask would be
quickly demolished if an ounce of our partners pain would be
felt and allowed in. The spiritual ego is so clever and
quick, and often pulls away with judgment and blame while
giving our partner unasked for advice and spiritual
and most challenging culprit on the spiritual path is the spiritualized ego.
To truly be free from all levels of ego, one must see the
games, plot and strategy ones spiritual ego is playing. through
that egoic mind that believes it is spiritual being. The
awareness of our spiritual ego allows for the recognition of
our true spiritual nature. This discernment is the final
enlightenment exam of breaking free from
spiritualized ego is perhaps the greatest ego
trip in disguise. It is wearing the sneaky mask of how
can I have my way with you and yet proclaims to be this all loving perfect fluffy holy
spiritual ego feels that it is coming from a higher more evolved perspective
because it thinks, "I am a spiritual being and not some
lowly human." Clearly, the ego is creating more separation
from the unacceptable parts of itself, claiming that it is
only the high and almighty divine source and nothing else.
the spiritual ego runs amuck, we cannot so easily see why,
how or if we are suffering. The spiritual fantasy
encapsulates our brain, and the idea that we are divine
becomes more entertaining and addicting than the actual
experience of being Divine. It is the greatest trap in the
spiritual path, and once we are willing to embrace all of
our darkness and our light, allowing for who we are to be
bigger than both worlds, we will discover the end of our
suffering and the doorway to freedom.
to Tell If Your Spiritual Ego Is Running the Show
spiritual ego is the most slippery, hidden and tricky of all
egoic facets, and nearly impossible to grasp. It's like water, it will
run through your hands if you try to grab hold of it, and
can only be contained when frozen solid. So how
do we know for sure when we are living from a spiritual ego and
not coming from
our soul? Simply ask yourself if you're truly at peace. If
not, there is a 99% chance that your ego is still in control
you're not certain, look at how many hours in a day you're
spending in total peace and bliss. Ask yourself if you are
living in bliss (all day long) or you're trying to believe that you
are. Feeling and imagining that you are deeply happy are two
very different experiences. Real happiness needs no intellectual fabrication
to arrive in joy. It has no reason needed to be happy, just
existing is enough.
you're generally happy throughout your day and yet not
involved in a long term intimate relationship, you've not
passed the final litmus test whether the ego is the
ringmaster behind the show. The only true determining factor here comes down to pure honesty with yourself.
Only your heart knows if you are truly happy and having a
spiritual experience of life all the time.
you still are uncertain you're caught in an spiritualized ego, you can
always find some form of reflection in how your
partners respond. Is their face light up with joy when you
connect with them? They are your closest most honest mirror
and best friend, the one who
will let you know if all your actions are truly coming from
love or fear. Just watch, wait listen and observe
closely. People always relax when a real Buddha has entered
to Deal with a Deeply Stuck Wounded Partner
vital to remember that it's not your job to fix, heal or
partner. They are not a machine that can be broken. They are also a Divine God
Being with the same natural powers that you have, to manifest anything
their heart desires at any place and time. If your partner
temporarily (or perpetually) addicted to certain unhealthy thought patterns,
emotions and substances, they are trying to relieve the
massive iceberg of pain underneath the surface. All
addictions come from a need to relieve pain.
look inwards and drop our attachment to
our ego, our partner will in time do the same. The key here
is not waiting impatiently for them to change, yet putting
everything in God's hands, knowing all you can do is
enlighten yourself. Naturally, when you are as bright as the
Sun, their ego
will melt in the light of your love. You can even see it
happening with your very eyes, its just like how sunshine
melts an block of ice on the sidewalk. So major patience is
always a huge determining factor in this journey. Notice if
you have expectations, assumptions and a hidden agenda. This
is all coming from ego. Look inside to see how deeply you're connected with
your spiritual source and make that your real goal.
Ultimately, when we relax and know that everything is in God's hands,
our relationship blossoms in the most magical ways. It's always the
responsibility of the Universe/God Source about what's
needed for our partner to truly transform, how quickly it
will happen, and the mystery of why it finally occurred.
Just know that every soul has come to Earth to spiritually
wake up, and there are an infinite number of
creative ways how this can manifest.
cannot know in any given moment what is right or wrong
for another human being. We can only hope that we can be
quiet enough inside our own mind, to hear our own intuition saying what is
right or wrong for ourselves. The best course of action we
can take in any challenging relationship is to spiritually work on ourselves.
This always means to exponentially increase the level of love
we are giving to everyone and to ourselves. When we are continuously
radiating love and enjoying the journey,
our ego drops naturally on its own accord.
Create a Loving Supportive Ego Liberating Community
we are living in connection with our heart, soul and
spiritual source, we naturally create
soul based connections with everyone we meet. Everyone around us, including
our partner, becomes an opportunity for greater love and to
see a deeper reflection of the Divine. Our simple loving existence will automatically
manifest a support system and create a loving caring community
of people around us. When our partner sees how many people's
lives we touch everyday,
the cold walls around their heart will melt in deep
Our community of friends and extended spiritual family are
where we receive the reflection about how our
progress is going. The world is our mirror, and others
become our greatest teachers to reflect back to us what's
really happening inside of us. In each new encounter, we are
given feedback about how much we are coming from ego, or
overflowing with joy, appreciation, lightness and unconditional love.
those challenging times when we are about to make a major
breakthrough of living more often from soul than our ego, we
may need the support of a loving community. It's not
necessary, yet it can help our animalistic tribal brain to
relax, and trust the 3rd side of the coin which says we
are both ego and divine.
we make the final shift from ego to soul, we need to let go
of depending on the outer world for support and allow
ourselves to meet with the Divine being totally alone.
This is where the ego cannot hide or be distracted by some
outer cause. When you are alone in the mountains by yourself
for many days (or weeks if you have the time) you can have
the spiritual adventure of a lifetime! You can get to know
yourself on the deepest level and make the most spiritual
progress that is possible.
The Secret Awakening Power You Can Give your Intimate
Most of us don't have the money, luxury or courage to break
away from our jobs or family's to head into the hills to be
alone for a month. If you try to do it, at least 10 good
reasons will try to stop you and keep you in the same
routine at home. If you are unable to physically break free,
this perhaps becomes one of the best (and more challenging) aspects of having an intimate
partner. They become the one and only super special
person who can instantly awaken us from our deepest egoic
Your partner naturally has this powerful secret ability to
deliver the greatest wake up call of awareness to your ego.
They will somehow, someway find those hidden abandoned,
neglected, unloved or wounded areas inside yourself where
you somehow forgot to look. It can happen in one word, one glance, or even
their silence in a response, we can get emotionally triggered and see
the intimate details of how we are still attached to our
small unlovable ego.
power you're giving your partner to awaken you doesn't come
from them, yet it comes from your listening perspective. How
are you listening to them? Are you listening from your past
or your projection into your future? Are you listening from
your soul or from you ego? It
doesn't matter if your partner is spiritually awake or not
yet. They are already intimately intertwined around your
heart and this is what truly matters. This one person will
always be your biggest ego button pusher, and thus the most
intense motivator to open your heart wider, and push you
deeper into higher levels of compassion for yourself and the
really not important that your partner knows that they have
secret awakening power over your ego. If they do, it just
becomes another egoic hurdle for each soul to have to jump
over. This exploration is only for you and your inner world.
Just know that it is their soul's spiritual
job to make sure that all of your hidden darkest closets are
opened wide and cleaned out. Be aware that when your
awareness is most dim, is the most likely time when your
monsters from your past will come out to play.
When we honor the master/student dynamic with
the higher self or soul of our partner, we stop blaming them and start thanking them instead.
We stop focusing on how they need to change, and instead we
use our creative energy to liberate ourselves from the
habitual ego patterns we are stuck in. The reactions we have of feeling stuck,
discouraged, abandoned, angry, disempowered, and hopeless
are all manifestations and visceral proof that we are still
living from our ego. When we only respond in gratitude and love, we are
seeing and feeling the greatest spiritual reality there is,
and living our true life mission on Earth.
Your job with your partner is to be loving in
the most honest, unique, creative and empowering ways. Your
mission is relate with them from the very depth of your being,
from your very soul.
is the greatest gift you can give to yourself and to your
partner. For when you are authentic in your every response,
your integrity with your spiritual growth will be solid, and
the clarity you receive will make you into one of the best
students of life who can truly trust themselves.
Tantric Intimacy Training: How to Instantly Ignite the Power
in your Soul
there is one thing in life that we all want and yet are
terrified of is amazing tantric sex. We want to experience
the deepest spiritual sexual connection, yet all our
societal hypnotic training says that this is definitely not
OK and merging sex and spirit is perhaps the greatest sin
man can make.
Tantra is the sexual path to
spiritual enlightenment. It is the most natural exploration
two lovers can make who are devoted to creating a life
together. When a couple decides to open the doors between
sexuality and spirituality, there is every possibility that
great magic will pour through. If you're interested in
manifesting your dream life with your partner, I highly
suggest you read about the magical manifesting power of the
Those who manifest their dream relationships are the ones
who truly trust themselves. By merging sex and soul,
we have to have absolute trust in ourselves over everything
that society has taught us about life. Often the main
initial reason why a loving intimate relationship started,
was because of sexual interest in each other. There was such
a strong physical, sensual or sexual attraction that it
magnetized the couple out of their social setting until they
took it home and dove into bed together.
a long term relationship to work, sex has to be addressed
and practiced daily. Yes, daily. If you want to experience
the magical tantric connection between your energy, you need
to practice having tantric sex at least 6 days a week. Of
course its healthy to take some time off to gain perspective
and give it all a rest, yet if you're practicing for the
Olympic Gold Metal in long jumping, you're not going to get
very far if you're going to the field once or twice a week.
Tantric sex is perhaps the most important essential secret
for any intimate loving relationship to work harmoniously
long term. There are too many benefits physically,
emotionally, mentally and spiritually from having daily sex
to not make it a priority. Sex has to take precedence and
vital importance in your relationship, and feel just like
you wouldn't go a day without brushing your teeth.
Believe me, after just the first month of having sex every
24 hours, your ego will be quite easy to tame, and you will
be emailing me with the most amazing deep letter of sincere
appreciation and gratitude.
The Divine Set Up: Why you Need to Shift from Ego to Soul
Awakening from our ego trip is a major undertaking, so first
off we need to respect the immensity of it. Most likely
you've been attempting to conquer your ego for lifetimes,
and have perhaps made baby steps along the way. The good
news is that there is more
momentum right now on the planet than there has ever
been before in our spiritual history. With the internet
sharing information at light speed, the spiritual growth
field is rapidly increasing, and will soon be going viral.
It will only become easier and easier to wake up.
you want to be on the head of the enlightenment locomotive
instead of the caboose, you'll need to truly detach from the
relentless grip of the ego as quickly, deeply and as often
as possible. This means you'll need to understand the source
from where the ego is attached, and where its Velcro-like
structure is coming from. When we move to the roots of the
ego, and realize what its actual hooks are all about, it has
no choice but to release you from it's illusionary snare.
first unhooking secret is this. Realize that everyone on the planet has been unconsciously
taught from childhood how to live in an ego based relationship
with everyone and everything. This is a world wide human
phenomena. We were taught from the TV as kids how buying
certain goodies will make you sexy, happy or fulfilled. We
have been fed a constant lie since the day we were born.
lie runs even deeper into our psyche as your parents
and their grandparents for 700+ generations were also raised
with this lie. Your lineage runs deep with perfect examples of how not
to create a healthy loving honest authentic intimate sensual
sexual relationship. Some parents have had the blessing of
reading self help books or learned how to tolerate
each other in order to stay married for their kids sake.
Other parents pretended to be spiritual people yet deep down
had their own hidden egoic agendas. Some have met a
spiritual teacher who opened the door to freedom, yet were
pulled in by the belief systems of friends, family and
society to remain acceptable and thus didn't have enough
support to become fully freed up from their ego.
How to Deal with Ancient Programming from Your Ancestor's
One of the most important things to liberate yourself from
your ego is to take a long good look at the programming your
parents handed you. Find out the details of what you
believed their belief system was all about. If you could
give one word to describe each of your grandparents, how
would you label them? What would be the 3 sentences you'd
use to describe to a new friend who your mom and dad were
for you. Your relationship (or relationshit) with your
ancestors is the clay that has molded your ego. It's created
your deepest belief system about what is blocking you from
creating a healthy loving intimate sensual sexual
tantric love life.
good news is that when we step back and see things from
a spiritual perspective, it doesn't matter so much how
horrible or amazing your parents were. Those good/bad
standards are based on personal egoic desires anyway. The
ego says if they coulda, shoulda and woulda been
different, then I'd be a happier person. When your soul came
to Earth, it knew what it was doing. You received the
perfect parents you needed for the karma and dharma you're
still carrying. When you own that, you'll stop blaming them
for how messed up you think you are.
horrible truth is that every
child born in society today has been brought up by
unenlightened parents. We have all been cult-ured by a
massive hypnotic education system that does not teach
enlightenment, because no human being actually knows first
hand what enlightenment
The good news is that naturally the
soul is quite radical and rebellious, and it often tries to
explore what not to do, in order to know which
direction to go down the road.
We were brought up in a system that has no successful
relationship, marriage, or parenting classes in public
schools. This is obviously because nobody feels they have
had a truly unconditionally loving intimate relationship in
order to teach it to our youth. So, we were all taught how
not to have deeply tantric, highly intimate, and
relationships. Everyone in the system has been raised to
follow the path of fulfilling the
relentless demands of their ego.
Accepting our darkest truth becomes our deepest step towards
enlightenment. As we allow for the past programming to be
whatever it is, we are no longer unaware of its pull on us,
and can respond to life from a place of love and awareness.
The big challenge is that our programming will always be
there, like a constant screensaver running forever in the
background, yet will slowly fade, becoming less dominating
with more spiritual awareness.
The Divine Purpose of the Ego
important to realize that the
ego is not a bad thing, and having one does not mean you're
not enlightened or there is something spiritually wrong with
you. The ego has a very sacred and divine purpose. Without an ego we would never know
who we were, or have any reference point for what it means
to be human. We need separation to find unification. Without
an ego there's no sense of direction in life, as there is
nobody who is going anywhere.
We need ego to know spirit, we need darkness to know light,
we need to release heaviness to feel lighter, and we need
the illusion of spiritually separating ego trip in order for
us to have spiritual journey. If our purpose on Earth is to
spiritually grow we will need an ego to transcend. Being
free from ego is how we truly enjoy the spiritual dimension
of our real nature and divine existence.
The cosmic joke is that society gives you an ego by age 7,
that you spend the remainder of your life trying to find
peace with. This is one reason why our society is addicted
to their ego, we were never taught the real purpose and
meaning behind it. When you look at the root of it all, I'd
have to say that this egoic addiction is responsible
for all of humanity's suffering.
How to Permanently Shift from Ego to Soul
order to make that permanent shift to creating intimate loving relationships in life,
you need a substantial amount of emotionally positive and
negative motivation. I invite you to project yourself
into the future, and explore who you are going to be if you
remain steady on the course you're currently on. What is
your life going to feel like in 5 years from now if you
don't make a change? How about in 20 years? If
you start taking steps to drop your ego addiction now, what
will your life be like in a year from now? What about in 5
or 20 years from now? Take some time to feel into this. It's
perhaps one of the most important choice points we can have
in our spiritual journey.
shift from ego to soul is massive. It helps to download
a basic 21st century
Soul Based Relationship Template
as a guide. It can show us exactly
when and how we are relating to others from a soul based connection that is
free from ego.
As we experience how amazingly joyful,
peaceful and empowering it is to be free from our own ego,
we realize how fun spiritual growth truly is, and it then
becomes effortless to bring this peaceful ego free quality into all our
actions and relationships. No matter what the ego says with
all its relentless demands, criticisms, judgments, and
hatred, we can live in a new paradigm that feels this deep
fulfilling love which just seems to follows us everywhere we
to Know if You're Stuck in an Ego Based Relationship
may seem crazy outrageous, yet you can always know that
you're living in an ego based relationship if you're not
feeling totally relaxed, fulfilled and at peace in each
and every moment you are spending with your partner.
When ego steps in you'll notice this perpetual subtle
tension attempting to rise up to the surface. Conversations
tend to end in some form of emotional numbness, anxiety,
stress or emotional conflict. The tension tends to build
with outer financial or sexual stress, and can suddenly feel like nothing
is going to work
out and you are your partner need to go your separate ways.
When we are living every day from ego, there
is very very little eye contact. There is no breathing
together snuggling in bed, there is no real heart
connection, and life feels void of romance. Fear, time and
stress prevail and the number one concern is
always, "How to get what I want and protect myself from
feeling pain." In
ego, everything you do together will feel challenging and even painful
to the heart.
The good news is that this egoic way
of living is supposed to be painful. It's just like how
you're supposed to feel pain if you accidentally sit on a
hot stove. We were not born to remain stuck in
an ego based relationships. This pattern is simply
Our job as spiritual beings on
the path to enlightened relationships is to do whatever is
causing us pain, then do the opposite of whatever we are
doing. If we are avoiding our partner, we must then move
towards them. If we are constantly invading our partner's
space, we must learn how to relax and give them more space.
We must learn how to become more sensitive, aware and outgrow our
ego based lifestyle if we wish to discover
the spiritual path we are meant to be on.
The Qualities of a Soul Based Relationship
A soul based
relationship is one that is rooted in relating to your
partner from the Divine part of you that knows that it
is whole, complete, and perfect just the way you are.
When you operate from your soul, you are connected to
your heart and feel a deep expansive love for everyone
and everything. From this place, you will naturally
have an all-encompassing love and patience for your
When we begin relating
soul to soul, deep feelings of love, respect, and
intimacy will naturally emerge in our relationships.
Sometimes the old egoic patterns tend to keep coming
back again and again, yet we can unravel them
subconsciously. You can uproot these past patterns my
Guided Manifesting Meditations. They have the
power to reprogram your mind to manifest real love and long term
happiness in all the areas of your life.
In a soul based dynamic, you and your partner are relating
from a timeless spiritual realm where the meeting has
reverence for the precious time you have with each other.
Each day is a sacred
soul to soul encounter, and bowing down to this truth allows a
real spiritual experience to step in. The awareness of how
quickly it all can end instantly provides both with a deep,
fulfilling, and blissful lively
missing key ingredient to any truly successful loving relationship is
Communicating from this deeper spiritual level is the secret
to long term love. The Divine is the common ground and
reference point to where everyone meets and finds
relaxation, acceptance and the Truth.
yourself to having a spiritual partnership you are invested
in creating a new future that knows no fear of arguing,
fighting or divorce. You are going to have real
communication that comes straight from the heart and soul.
Your relationship from this place has a real love quality in
each encounter, and provides you both with the courage to
live the life of your dreams!
are you ready to do some work and start transforming
yourself from the inside out? Let's start with
thinking about these questions...
What do you need to let go of to
allow yourself to...
Always keep your heart
open, no matter what happens between you and your lover.
Devote yourself 100% to
being in a committed long term highly sensual, sexual,
the drama, anger, fear, struggle, and anxiety caused by
hidden ego conditioning that have plagued your relationships for years.
Live your life
from your soul instead of your ego.
Feel with that Divine
part of you from which has a Universal spring of
unconditional love and well being.
Spiritual Love for yourself that allows your soul mate
to want to stay in your life!
Maintain real integrity with yourself
exploring your relationship
with the God Source.
The 3 Steps To Liberate Yourself
from An Ego Based Relationship
these steps for 21 days to free yourself from any
habitual ego based pattern that is blocking you from
love and reoccurring for you.
Focus Only on Creating Your Soul Based Relationship
for 21 Days
Whatever we focus on
grows. Don't try to get rid of the ego based
relationship. Just focus on creating the spiritual
connection with your partner. When we are 100% devoted
to our own spirit and soul within, this same soul
based connection will show up in our relationship. We
are 100% responsible for the relationship we create.
When the spiritual
foundation is solid within you, it will mirror and
manifest itself on the outer person in time. We all
know that love is patient and very kind, this
transition time is your gateway to practice deepening
your spiritual qualities until your partner shifts
from ego to soul.
The kind of relationship
we believe we deserve to have is often the one we end
up creating and dreaming is happening. The secret to
shifting our of ego, is holding the feeling and vision
of what a solid soul based relationship is like for
you! What qualities does it have and how does it
make you feel to be in one? What did you have to let
go of to let in this amazing soul based relationship?
The more we focus on and feel into what we want, the
faster and deeper our manifesting energies catapult in the right direction.
Ego’s Tight Grip
has a strong grip on you because you have a strong
grip on it. When you let go of your attachment to "I
am xyz" or this is my xyz...you begin to release the
tight grip that it has. Often the ego is running the
show without you even being aware of it. When we
create awareness of the ego, it no longer has power
The exercise here is
starting your day with 5 minutes of pure awareness,
looking at what is this ego trip you are on. This will
help you learn how identify, and release ego
attachments that are harming your relationship.
Through your simple soft pure awareness you can
discover how to relate to your partner's anger as well
as your own, and learn how to transform the judgments
generated by the ego and turn them into acceptance
from the soul.
Practice Loving From Your Soul
This step is dedicated to helping you consciously learn how to easily embrace the Divine in Yourself and Your Partner.
When you realize the Divine God Source is within you
(because it exists in everything) then you're able to
see it inside your partner. This realization will support both of you in relating to each
other in a clear and authentic soul-based way.
The secret to this
step is learning how to deepen your own love towards
yourself. Love is the key to joyful relating, and the
strengthen the love connection within yourself, the
more you have to share with your beloved. The more you honor the divine in yourself,
the easier it is to see it when your partner is
triggered and totally going mad! As you wake up to the
Divine truth of who you are, it becomes impossible to
hold on to the old ego-based way of relating, and
naturally you see the Divine Soul that lives inside
the body of your partner.
The Final Hidden Pitfalls in Creating an Intimate Loving Relationship
fail to manifest the kind of loving partnership they desire
because they are afraid to take the risk to relate to
themselves and their partner from a spiritual paradigm. They
are afraid to be honest about what they truly want in life,
and decide that its better to play it safe.
feels safer to focus on trying to get the egos needs met, even
though its never satisfied, it is at least a direction that is
known and comfortable. However, whenever
the ego is running the show, relationships are always
with strife, power struggles, and unhappiness.
The problem here
is we are unable to see ourselves as a spiritual being. If we
cannot honor this aspect of ourselves, how the heck are we
going to see it in our
partner? We must realize, own and have reverence for our own spiritual
nature first, then we
are to create whatever emotional, spiritual, sexual we desire in our
Perhaps you know that you and your partner love each other, yet your relationship is plagued by arguments, misunderstandings, or feelings of being disconnected.
What is missing in this type of situation is a magical little
tool called 5th Dimensional
Listening. This is all about learning how to listen
as if God were speaking directly to us personally. When we
shift how we listen, we change how the other feels received,
and thus the dynamic can shift from an ego based to soul based
The other pitfall is how relationships tend to seesaw
back and forth in duality from, "I love you soooo much
please don't leave me, to I hate you get the hell out of my
life!" When we are living from ego, in one moment we can feel
loved because our lover is giving their energy to us. Yet when
their love is not available or blocked in some way, where do
we get our love source from?
It's only when
we feel connected to our soul, to the God Source, and invested
in our own spiritual
awakening that we can feel loved at all points and time in
life's journey. Sure we may have the feeling that God
abandoned us and we are alone here, yet this is just a
childish misunderstanding that makes everyone feel alienated from each other.
Being aware of this deep spiritual misunderstanding is the
secret to transforming any mediocre ego-based relationship
into deeply loving Divine partnerships full of intimacy and
When you discover how to find the Divine God
Connection is always inside yourself, you
have the power, love and opportunity to be at peace with life
and centered in love no matter what is going on inside your
partner. This powerful experience is a result from doing 90
days of my Super
Manifesting Program. This experience alone will
dramatically transform your relationship and create a long
term successful friendship as well.
Inside the program you'll receive a powerful meditation to
help you discover this vast source of spiritual love inside
yourself called the
Self Love Meditation.
As you retrain your brain to live in self appreciation, self
acceptance and self love, you'll find any relationship you
have with anyone, will be coming from the soul instead of the
ego. Life becomes quite joyful when we love ourselves and can
love others with effortless ease. I've found doing daily
manifesting meditations are one of the most powerful
techniques to quickly altering one's life, and they give you an entirely new approach to
creating what you want in life.
If you're ready
for the advanced manifestation course right now, I'll tell you
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Inside it, you'll
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manifest the love you've been waiting for!