How to Create Tantric Intimacy

The 3 Golden Secrets to Creating a Spiritually Sensual Ecstatic Experience with your Partner

Tantric Intimacy is touching the divine within ourselves and our partner. It is a spiritual path in itself, which leads to a grounded connection with God through an open hearted connection to our beloved. In real tantric intimacy get to experience our partner in a way where we feel intimately connected on a very sensual level with the God Source.

In Tantra, when skin touches skin, it is God touching God. We are reaching the highest most ecstatic loving place a human being can achieve. The divine presence within us is fully self expressed, extending out from our merging hearts into the entire Universe.

Tantric intimacy practiced in a long term committed relationship creates a foundation for a empowering partnership and magnetic connection. When you’re creating sensually intimate spiritual experiences with your partner every single day, there is such a deep experience of fulfillment and total life satisfaction that you cannot even imagine leaving your partner. You know the levels of profound spiritual completion within yourself are only found with this amazing soul. This creates amazing levels of trust and freedom in the relationship which allow it to be a true long term enjoyable intimate love affair.

When practicing tantric intimacy with your partner the level of attraction and pull towards each other can magnify so much that you might mistake them for the Divine itself. This is where Romantic Love and real Tantric Love need to be defined. The romantic person falls in love getting attached to the persons body, mind and ego. The tantric person rises in love, knowing the whole time it is the spiritual essence making love to itself and through itself. Here is a complete list of signs to look out for to see if your relationship is based on ego or soul.

When you first start practicing Tantric Intimacy your ego most likely will be leading the way. It will be thinking, what can I get out of this practice for me, instead of thinking what do I have to give to enhance my lovers life. The ego is always self serving in a very contracted time constricted way. The spiritual approach ignites the understanding that there is a very sacred divine being that you’re merging with on a very deep intimate level and you should be VERY appreciative and honoring, as if you were going to be making love only this one time.

When you first start practicing Tantric Intimacy your ego most likely will be leading the way. It will be thinking, what can I get out of this practice for me, instead of thinking what do I have to give to enhance my lovers life. The ego is always self serving in a very contracted time constricted way. The spiritual approach ignites the understanding that there is a very sacred divine being that you’re merging with on a very deep intimate level and you should be VERY appreciative and honoring, as if you were going to be making love only this one time.

When you are practicing tantra and making love on a daily basis the level of togetherness and magnetic attraction intensifies. Having some form of consented penetration either soft or hard with your partner is essential to create a Kundalini Awakening together. When your energies are synchronized, and your sex center, perineum and heart is open and relaxed, the Kundalini rises on her on. We enter into the greatest spiritual kingdom where the deepest core of our being is merged with the Divine. The spiritual connection is born out of this sweet safe foundation created in a long term feeling of partnership from both sides.

The 3 Golden Secrets to Tantric Intimacy

The 1st Secret

The main goal of this tantric intimate practice is to not reach your normal ejaculation and have a contracted efforting approach when making love. If you wish to reach a cosmic multi-orgasmic state in your life, you have to let go of the old ways you were taught how to have sex. The purpose here is to accumulate energy to ascend to the high and holy Cosmic Orgasm state with your partner. This is built only through many weeks or months of practicing deep tantric intimacy with your partner. This may include spending hours each day soul gazing, authentically sharing, and laying belly-to-belly in bed. In this practice of soul connection you’re naturally breathing in harmony with the others breath, making emotionally releasing sounds, gazing into their eyes to see the soul inside them (and you), while exploring their body sensually. You are constantly opening the heart center throughout this practice which is the main key to its success. This is the foundation for real tantric intimacy and these techniques build a foundation for massive spiritual energy to root itself and will eventually give birth to a Cosmic Orgasm.

“When spirituality and sensuality become one movement, lovemaking becomes a meditation and divine opportunity to evolve on your spiritual path.” ~Jafree

The 2nd Secret

The golden key here is learning how to work with your Kundalini so that she is neither too high and overly ecstatic nor too controlled and unable to fully express. The Kundalini is moved with the breath and through the mind circulating energy from heart center to sex center and into the others heart and sex center while in this deep tantric intimate embrace. At all cost s the man must not release a drop of his semen for the Kundalini to rise. He must learn to pull up and in of his energy at the perineum. This control soon activates his Kundalini when the sex center can be fully relaxed and open, then the Kundalini gently finds its way up his spine. For the woman, she wants to do the same as far as not push for a contracted release or typical climax. She must open and expand her sexual energy as she feels it may climax with any tension to push or reach for an orgasmic peak. Her Cosmic Orgasm comes through surrender, welcoming the ecstasy, opening up to the Divine Masculine entering her. If either person hits a contracted orgasmic peak other than relax and expand their energy inside before they peak, all the tantric energy is lost and the party is quickly over.

“The day on which we come to know the supreme consciousness within us, then the outside world will also appear to us like the expanse of the supreme consciousness. Then we shall touch a stone as if we are touching our beloved, because the stone is not stone, then it is God.” ~Osho

The 3rd Secret

Real tantric intimacy to reach the Cosmic Orgasm requires absolute trust and honesty. You must be able to share everything and anything with your partner and be at peace with their response or lack of response. Each day make space to practice sharing information that you cannot share, and talk about everything you cannot talk about. Be radical honest with your partner about everything in words that they can understand and hear. This takes getting to know your partners love language and attuning to their listening. You must extend yourself while sharing beyond what you feel is your “comfort zone” to talk about what you are unable to talk about. This is a way to rise higher in love by reaching out to your beloved from your heart. The walls will start crumbling down when you choose to invite in a deeper Tantric Love and intimacy over protecting or defending the ego. This practice will create a deepening in vulnerability which cretates room for more openness, intimacy, love, trust and a deeper heart connection. From here you can relax completely into your partnership and yourself free from ego, which paves the path for the Cosmic Orgasm to come flooding in!

“The vision of Tantra is a direct approach towards God, towards Reality, towards that which is. It has no mediators, no middle man. Tantra says, God can ONLY be approached directly, there is no other way. God is immediacy. God is here now, already always surrounding you.” ~Osho