What Is Enlightened Masculinity?

The 7 Sacred Practices of the Enlightened Masculine 

Written by Jafree Ozwald

What is the state of Enlightened Masculinity? Let’s start by feeling into the difference between a grounded heart-centered man who is deeply content with his life, and relaxed deeply within his being, with a hurried man who lives in constant desperation throughout his life, chasing his every egoic desire and instant gratification.

The Enlightened Masculine presence is like becoming your God Self. You are aware of the superficiality of the ego’s desires and know that your real power is not found in massive amounts of money, mating with women, acquiring status, or buying expensive materialistic things. The real power is within the depth of your spiritual connection.

An enlightened man is devoted to radiating love and experiencing the most radical freedom possible. He is experiencing himself as the one who is undefinable and free from the opinions of those who attempt to define and label him. He is releasing the complex layers of ego patterns to find his real Self, his unconditionally loving, appreciative, kind, and generous nature. 

The Enlightened Masculine is in a constant process of letting go and saying YES to this next moment of feeling his own Divinity within. It doesn’t matter whatever ego trip he is thrown into. He is on purpose to surrender deeper into his natural state of Divinity inside.

The Enlightened Man lives in a state of perpetual love, trust, and freedom…

In my personal journey through life, I’ve experienced a full pendulum swing from the deepest spiritual awakening through meditation and ascending into states of radical freedom financially, sexually, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually on every level and falling into being spiritually lost, addicted to substances for enjoyment, and emotionally “unenlightened”.

In order for me to shift out of this ‘unenlightened’ part, I needed to accept myself fully for how I was being wrong for past actions and unconscious behaviors. Once I was able to forgive myself, I could return home to my higher Self. I was able to relax and be at peace with the deeper darker emotions that would randomly arise.

“The Sun does not see any darkness.” ~ Sri Ramana Maharshi

The unenlightened aspects are always clinging to desires. Running to substances, food, entertainment, and pleasures of the world for an escape. They are looking to women for love, money for security, food for energy, sex for pleasure, and adrenaline for feeling wild and free. These are a few of the many cages which may entrap him

The unenlightened masculine exists within every man who never takes the time to stop doing everything, truly takes time to be quiet and relax deeply inside where he can create a sincere inquiry into himself. He needs to sit with what his soul is yearning to experience in this life to be free. Questioning everything. Inquiring into his inner voice, life purpose, motives, and desires. He needs to be free from everything…including all the emotional wounds from the past that he carries inside.

Below are the 7 powerful practices that have helped me to reawaken the Enlightened Masculine within myself.  I feel they can do the same for any man on this planet who is struggling with their relationships, love life, finances, career, life purpose, and masculinity.

 1. The Enlightened Masculine has a sense of humor.  He acknowledges a deeper spiritual awareness which knows that life is a game, and so he plays with life lightly. He is sincere about his interactions with life, yet doesn’t take anything or anyone too seriously.  He knows if he forgets the cosmic joke behind it all, he becomes lost in desire, drama, delusion, and caught in the sticky matrix of the ego/mind and adding more suffering to mankind. Thus, the Enlightened Masculine’s perspective is free from seriousness, yet he takes love, truth, integrity, honesty, and freedom very sincerely. 

 2. The Enlightened Masculine can be vulnerable with his emotions. He is not afraid or ashamed to express his grief, anger, shame, guilt, or overwhelming happiness. He knows this is a way to create intimacy with another. He is fearless in his vulnerability and comes from a deeply honest space in himself where full transparency is reached in sharing his raw naked truth. He takes full responsibility for his every experience and does not project blame onto others. If he does, he apologizes immediately and takes ownership.

In each moment ask are you choosing to awaken or be complacent?

3. The Enlightened Masculine is spiritually connected and a highly sensitive Being. He is deeply in touch with his true nature, living as the unconditional love of existence. He is aware of his spiritual nature and the Infinite Divine Being that he truly is. A real man feels this power within himself deeply, so that he doesn’t have to feel powerless in the world. He knows that he is an eternal soul who will never die and thus he is kind, patient, and loving with everyone that he meets. He is sensitive to the words and deeds he does to others as he knows what he gives out is what he gets back. So he is constantly practicing kindness and shares his heart overflowing with loving healing energy.

4. The Enlightened Masculine embodies his true sexual power.  He is a true Tantric Being wherever he goes, he is being intimately touched by the Divine feminine and masculine within existence. He can sexually satisfy himself with or without his partner for hours by not ejaculating and circulating his orgasmic energy with the mere intention of his mind and breath. The Enlightened Masculine deeply satisfies his partner by allowing his penis to remain rock hard for hours while making love, allowing his body to be extra sensitive and slow in sexual movement, dancing in rhythm with his partner’s body. He can do this because he has devoted himself to opening up his Kundalini Channel during lovemaking and gifting himself with a multi-orgasmic experience.

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This access to a constant state of an orgasm allows him to tap into his full Kundalini manifestation power as he opens his spine up to God. The Enlightened Masculine can have long deep slow lovemaking with his partner which allows her to open herself up completely and surrender herself to the Divine energy that he is embodying.

Together they never clench, push or chase after having a peak orgasm, or try to get their partner to reach a sexual peak to end the session and fall instantly asleep. Instead, he is interested in deeper spiritual intimacy with himself and his Kundalini so allows himself to be taken by the cosmic playfulness in the bedroom.

5. The Enlightened Masculine knows how to listen, and he listens deeply because he cares. He has the ability to truly take in another without giving advice, criticism, feedback, or mentally wandering from the conversation. He is present, engaging, and full in his expression always rooted in humility and compassion. He can listen from three different perspectives. He can listen from his own ego/mind, from the other person’s point of view, and from a universal perspective. He is not attached to helping fix the other’s problems, yet instead feels how their issue relates to his own experience in life and speaks from his own perspective when asked to share.

6. The Enlightened Masculine is not fear-based, jealous, or possessive. He allows his partner the freedom to explore the other sensual Beings of this world according to the agreements they’ve made without anxiety, fear, or jealousy. He trusts in his heart’s connection with her, knowing that his sensitivity will let him know if something is off or untrue. He welcomes agreements, commitment, and a deep heartfelt connection with his partner. He is never jealous because he is devoted to real freedom and allows his partner the same.

7. The Enlightened Masculine is at peace with everyone in his past and future. He has faced and forgiven his demons from the past and is emotionally at peace with his family, parents, and the world. He has dreams and desires of a beautiful future yet is not attached to them to be happy at this moment. He has nothing he needs to change within himself. He is content with who he is and how he is. He does not need to prove himself to anyone, he is free. His inner peace allows him to engage in the world in a way that uplifts others and naturally is a positive force of love for humanity. He does not try to gain power, control, or status in life, because he is deeply at peace with life exactly as it is. He simply trusts that the higher power is guiding everything and he gives his life over to this. 

What about the Enlightened Feminine?
What does she want?

Basically, she wants an enlightened man who is in alignment with his life purpose and inner power. She desires to open herself up fully to a man who is safe to hold her, protect her and approach her with vulnerability, kindness, and a strength that allows her to melt all of her anxieties. The sweetest healing feeling shows up in her heart the moment he embraces her.
The Enlightened Feminine already feels connected to her cosmic source, and yet also wants to go deeper into opening her feminine energy by feeling safe enough to open her whole body, mind, and emotions with a man who ‘gets her’. She feels the raw real connection with his heart and is filled with ecstasy simply to be in his divine presence. She sees the Divinity in him because she is honoring it within herself.
The Enlightened Feminine desires to feel penetrated by his soul to feel an even greater spiritual aliveness in her life. When she’s with him she wants him to worship the goddess within her, and become a stable man in her life who is devoted to helping her become freer. She yearns to find a man who can be both authentic and transparent and is not afraid to share insecure versions of himself.
The Enlightened Feminine wants truth, not some overly serious attitude, some plastic happy energy, or some overly controlled way of relating. She wants him to be okay with his vulnerability. She wants deep security and the aliveness of unpredictability.
She wants to be lifted by his positive energy towards life, as well as feel the deep soft nurturing experience of his personal struggle. She wants a man who can take the lead, be there for her when she is struggling, and allow her to dive deeper into the exploration of her soul.  She wants a man who can offer her his heart, hands, and love in such a genuine Divine way that he could not think he would need to get back anything in return. 
Enlightened Masculinity Homework: For the next 21 days, practice pleasuring yourself to the edge of ejaculation to the point of almost having an orgasm, yet just remain on the edge. Sustain this state of living on the orgasmic edge of life for 45 minutes a day.
Extra Credit: Develop your sense of humor, share where you feel vulnerable with others every day, focus on your spiritual path and higher purpose connection, be sexually grounded in yourself, practice your listening skills, be non-attached to your desires, and devote your life to being at peace with yourself.  
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